tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27673192474597799042024-03-13T09:15:17.923+05:30think Why NotMy thoughts, Your thoughts meet here.Think Why Nothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16313661524631297774noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767319247459779904.post-74178598468123062722016-07-07T21:32:00.003+05:302016-07-07T21:43:16.856+05:30Religious Nationalism, Ethnic Identities and related stupidity<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I still don't understand ethnic or religious nationalism since I was a teenager.<br />
So, your parents got married and you were born to a certain ethnic group, certain religion, certain country and you have the genes of both of your parents.<br />
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Is it something to be ashamed of? <b><span style="color: red;">No.</span></b><br />
Is it something to be proud of? <b><span style="color: red;">No.</span></b><br />
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<span style="color: red;">You want to be proud of something? Do something that increases well being and reduces human suffering.</span><br />
The rest is just bullshit.<br />
Nobody cares about your ancestors nor your identity.<br />
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<span style="color: blue;">If your ancestors invented the cure for some disease</span>, <b>they deserve the credit, NOT YOU.</b><br />
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Your existence is just a waste and it adds up to climate change.<br />
~Faisal Saeed Al Mutar<br />
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பதின் பருவத்திலிருந்து இப்போதுவரை இனப்பற்று, சமயபற்று, தேசியம் என்பவற்றை என்னால் புரிந்து கொள்ளமுடியவில்லை.<br />
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என்ன உனது பெற்றோர் திருமணம் செய்து கொண்டார்கள், நீ அவர்களுக்கு பிறந்ததினால் குறித்த இனத்தினனாக, குறித்த மதத்தினனாக, குறித்த நாட்டினனாக அடையாளப்படுத்திக் கொள்கிறாய்.<br />
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இன்ன மதத்தினன், இன்ன சமூகத்தைச் சார்ந்தவன் என்று அடையாளபடுத்துவதில் பெருமை ஏதும் இருக்கிறதா? இல்லை!<br />
இதில் வெட்கப்பட ஏதும் இருக்கிறதா? இல்லை!<br />
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நீ பெருமையாக எண்ண ஏதும் வேண்டுமா? மனித சமுதாயத்தின் இன்னல்களை குறைக்கவும் அவர்களின் நல்வாழ்வை அதிகரிக்கவும் ஏதாவது செய். பின்னர் பெருமைப்படலாம்.<br />
மிச்சமெல்லாம் வெறும் முட்டாள்தனமான ஆர்ப்பட்டமே.<br />
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உனது அடையாளம், உன் முன்னோர்கள் பற்றி இங்கு யாரும் கவனிக்கமாட்டார்கள்.<br />
அவை உன் முயற்சியினாலோ, உன் சிந்தனையினாலோ, உன் தேர்வினாலோ விளைந்தவை/கிடைத்தவையல்ல. வெறுமனே சந்தர்ப்பவசத்தால் வாய்த்தவை.<br />
உன் முன்னோர்கள் இந்த மனித குலம் சிறப்புற வாழ்ந்தார்களா? உன் முன்னோர்கள் கொடிய நோய் ஒன்றிற்கு மருந்தைக் கண்டறிந்தார்களா? இன்றும் உலகமே வியக்கும் ஒன்றை செய்திருக்கிறார்களா? அப்படியாயின் அதற்காக பெருமைப்பட/போற்றப்பட வேண்டியவர்கள் அவர்களே அன்றி நீயல்ல. அவர்கள் செய்த எதற்கும் உனக்கும் எந்த சம்பந்தமும் இல்லை.<br />
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மற்றும் படி நீ, உலகின் காலநிலை மாற்றத்திற்கும் சமநிலையின்மைக்கும் காரணியாகும் ஒரு கழிவு!<br />
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Think Why Nothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16313661524631297774noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767319247459779904.post-21001251435745747512015-07-02T12:10:00.000+05:302015-07-02T17:18:03.397+05:30சமபாலுறவு, மூன்றாம் பாலினம், திருமண சமவுரிமை<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">எச்சரிக்கையும் </span></span><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-weight: normal;">பொறுப்பு துறப்பும் (Warning & Disclaimer): இவ்வாரத்தில் தொடர்ச்சியாக சமபாலுறவு பற்றிய நிலைத்தகவல்களே வர இருப்பதனால், அதை அறிவு ரீதியாக, தர்க்கத்தின் அடிப்படையில் அணுக விரும்புபவர்கள் மட்டும் மேற்கொண்டு வாசிக்கலாம், மற்றையவர்கள் இதனை வாசிக்காமல் இருப்பது மன அமைதிக்கும் உங்களது நம்பிக்கைக்கும் நல்லது. இல்லை என்று வீம்புக்கு வாசித்துவிட்டு இப்பதிவு என் உணர்வுகளை புண்படுத்துகிறது என்றால் அதற்கு யாரும் பொறுப்பல்ல.</span></div>
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முற்றிலும் தப்பான அபிப்பிராயம்+கருத்து. இயற்கையில் பல உயிரினங்கள் சமபாலுறவுத் தன்மையை வெளிப்படுத்துகின்றன. நீங்கள் அன்றாடம் காணும் பூனை முதல் கொண்டு சிங்கம் வரை சமபாலுறவுத் தன்மையை இயற்கையாகவே வெளிப்படுத்துகின்றன. விபரமான வாசிப்புக்கும் அறிவு விரிவாக்கத்திற்கும்: <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_animals_displaying_homosexual_behavior" style="color: #1155cc;" target="_blank">https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/<wbr></wbr>List_of_animals_displaying_<wbr></wbr>homosexual_behavior</a></div>
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சமபாலுறவு இயற்கையானது என்பதற்கு உதாரணமாக இயற்கையில் விலங்குகளின் நடத்தை பற்றி சுட்டியுடன் குறிப்பிட்டு இருந்தேன். மனிதர்களை விலங்குகளுடன் விட மேலானவர்கள் இல்லையா, நமக்கு சிந்திக்க பகுத்தறிவு இருக்கிறதே என்ற கேள்வி எழுந்தது. சமபாலுறவு இயல்பானது / இயற்கையானது அல்ல என்று கூறுபவர்களுக்கு இயற்கையிலேயே இவ்வாறு நிகழ்கிறது என்பதற்குத் சான்றாகத்தான் அந்த உதாரணமே தவிர, மனிதர்கள் விலங்குகளைப் போல நடந்து கொள்ளவேண்டும் என்பதற்காக அல்ல.<br />
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நிச்சயமாக இல்லை. இதுவரை மருத்துவ விஞ்ஞானத்தில் சமபாலுறவு இயற்கை நிலையாகவே கொள்ளப்படுகிறது. வியாதி என்று நினைப்பவர்கள் எந்த டாக்டரிடம்/கடையில் மருந்து இருக்கிறது என்று சொன்னால் நல்லது. எல்லா சமபாலுறவாளர்களையும் எடுத்துக் கொள்ளச் சொல்லலாம். அல்லது பிறக்கும் போதே போலியோ சொட்டு மருந்து போல போட்டுக் கொள்ளச் சொல்லலலாம். மருத்துவ விஞ்ஞானமே இன்னும் வளரவில்லை, மருத்துவ விஞ்ஞானத்தை விட தாம் சிறந்த அறிவாளிகள் என்று நினைப்பவர்கள், இது குறித்து ஆராய்ந்து மருந்து கண்டுபிடிக்கும் முயற்சியில் ஈடுபடலாம் அல்லது ஒரு சிறந்த மனோதத்துவ நிபுணரை அணுகுவது நாட்டுக்கும் வீட்டுக்கும் நலம்.:P</div>
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ஒன்றும் ஆகாது. எதிர்பாலுறவு (heterosexuality) எப்படி இயற்கையோ, அதுபோலவே சமபாலுறவும். ஒரு ஆணாக பெண் மீது ஈர்ப்பு ஏற்பட யாரும் எனக்கோ உங்களுக்கோ கற்றுத் தரவில்லை (புலி பசித்தாலும் புல்லை உண்ணாததை போல). அதே போல எதிர்பாலுறவு ஈர்ப்புள்ள ஒருவரால் சமபாலுறவாளராக மாற முடியாது. சமபாலுறவு ஈர்ப்பு பிறப்பின் போது உண்டாவது. சமபாலுறவாளர்களை சட்டரீதியாக அங்கீகரிப்பதன் மூலம் அவர்கள் மீது இடம் பெறும் அடக்குமுறைகள் ஒடுக்கல்கள் குறைந்து எல்லோரையும் போல அவர்களும் சாதாரணமாக வாழ்வை மேற்கொள்ள உதவும்.</div>
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மூன்றாம் பாலினருக்கு (ஆண், பெண் அற்றவர் - transgender) சமூக அங்கீகாரம் அளிப்பதன் மூலம் எல்லோரும் மூன்றாம் பாலுக்கு மாறிவிட்டார்களா என்ன? இன்னும் மூன்றாம் பாலினரை வெறுத்து ஒதுக்கும் குடும்பங்கள் உள்ளன. மூன்றாம் பாலினராகவோ, சமபால ஈர்ப்புள்ளவராகவோ பிறந்தது அவர்களின் குற்றமா?</div>
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நீங்கள் மூன்றாம் பாலினராக பிறந்துவிட்டீர்கள் என்று வைத்துக் கொள்வோம். சமூகத்தை பொறுத்தவரை ஆண், பெண் என்பதை மட்டுமே ஏற்றுக் கொள்ளும் எனில் எவ்வாறு சமூகத்தில் வாழ முடியும்? சமூகம் ஒதுக்குவதால் உங்கள் குடும்பமும் நண்பர்களும் ஒதுக்குவார்களாயின் என்ன செய்வீர்கள்? மூன்றாம் பாலினராகவோ சமபால் விருப்புள்ளவராக பிறந்ததோ ஒருவரின் குற்றமா..? அவர்களும் இயல்பாக வாழும் வகையில் சமூக அமைப்பை மாற்றவேண்டாமா?</div>
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ஒவ்வொரு சமயம்/கடவுள்/மார்க்கம் சார்ந்த விடயங்களில் எத்தனையோ குறைபாடுகளை கண்டிருக்கிறோம். அவை தவறு என்று விலக்கி சரியானதை கைக்கொண்டு வாழ்வது தானே மனித குல நாகரீகத்தின் வளர்ச்சி. உதாரணமாக சொல்வதானால் அடிமை என்பது இயற்கையானது(Slavery is natural condition) என்று ஒரு சமயநூல் கூறியிருக்கிறது, அதற்காக இன்னுமா அதை பின்பற்றுகிறோம்? பிற மதத்தை சேர்ந்தவர் என்பதற்காக கழுவேற்றிய காலம் ஒன்று இருந்தது. அதை இப்போது சரி என்று செய்ய முயல்கிறோமா? சக மனிதரை சமமாக மதிப்பதுவும் அனைவருக்கும் சம உரிமைகள் அளிப்பதுவுமாக நம் மனங்கள் வளரவில்லையா என்ன? சாதியம், தீண்டாமை, அடிமை முறைமை, நிறபேதம் சரி என்ற நம்பிக்கை தகர்தெறிந்து எல்லோரும் சமமாக வாழும் சமூககட்டமைப்புக்குள் வரவில்லையா?</div>
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அடிப்படையில் அனைத்து உயிர்களிடத்தும் அன்பாயிருக்க உங்கள் சமயம்/மார்க்கம் /கடவுள் போதிக்கவில்லையா? இப்படி ஒரு மனிதரை அவர் வேறு ஒரு குழுமத்தை சார்ந்தவர் என்பதற்காகவே ஒதுக்குவது அந்த போதனைக்கு முரணான நடத்தையில்லையா?</div>
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சமபாலுறவுக்கு குடும்பங்களிலும் ஒருவனுக்கு ஒருவன், ஒருத்திக்கு ஒருத்தி என்ற ஒழுக்கம் பேணப்பட வேண்டும். சாதாரண குடும்ப வாழ்வின் ஒழுக்கங்கள் பின்பற்றப்பட வேண்டும். சம பாலுறவிலும் பிறமனைப்புணர்ச்சி (Adultery), சிறுவர் துஷ்பிரயோகம், பாலியல் வன்முறை, சம்மதமின்றி கட்டாயப்படுத்தல்கள் போன்றன தண்டணைக்குரிய குற்றங்கள் ஆக்கப்படும். அவர்களது திருமணத்தை அங்கீகரிக்காத பட்சத்தில் எப்படி பிறன்மனைபுணர்ச்சிக்காக தண்டிக்க முடியும்? அவர்களை ஒதுக்காமல் சமூகத்தில் சாதாரண மனிதர்களாக பார்க்கப்படவும், அவர்களது திருமணங்கள் அங்கீகரிக்கப்படவும் வேண்டும். சமபாலுறவினருக்கான அங்கீகாரம் என்பது அவர்கள் திருமணம், சமூகம் என்ற கட்டமைப்பிற்குள் வாழ வழங்கப்படும் அங்கீகாரமே தவிர எல்லோரையும் அவ்வாறு மாற/மாற்ற தூண்டும் நடவடிக்கை அல்ல. அதை மறுப்பது அவர்களுக்கான ஒழுக்கத்தை, சமூகத்துடன் இயைந்து வாழும் உரிமையை மறுப்பதாகும்.</div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><b><u>ஒரு தன்னிலை விளக்கம்:</u> உணர்ச்சிவசப்பட்டு, முன்முடிவுகளோடு சமபாலுறவு என்பதை நோக்காமல், சார்புகள் இன்றி திறந்த மனதோடு தர்க்கத்தின் அறிவின் அடிப்படையில் பார்ப்பதற்கு, விளங்கிக் கொள்வதற்கு ஒரு கலந்துரையாடுவதற்கான வௌியை /சந்தர்ப்பத்தை உருவாக்குவதே கடந்த வாரத்தில் இட்ட நிலைத்தகவல்களின் அடிப்படையும் பின்புலமும் ஆகும். தவிர யாருடைய நம்பிக்கையையும் புண்படுத்துவதோ, பேஸ்புக்கில் லைக் வாங்குவதோ, மேற்கு நாடுகளுக்கு வால் பிடிப்பதோ, உலகின் போக்கிற்கு(current world trend) ஓடுவதோ, அறிவாளி என்ற பிம்பத்தை உண்டாக்குவதோ, நண்பர்களின் வெறுப்பையும் கோபத்தையும் சம்பாதித்து கொள்வதோ நோக்கமல்ல!</b></span></div>
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Think Why Nothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16313661524631297774noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767319247459779904.post-84575066756438293762010-07-31T21:22:00.011+05:302011-08-06T08:34:48.073+05:30It's ME & YOU who need to act<span class="Apple-style-span" ><b>There is no super man or Bat man gonna come to fight for good, It is YOU and ME who need to ACT</b></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><blockquote></blockquote><br /><br />It has been ages since I updated this blog. I guess I have lost my interest and patience to sit and write things that inspire me. Well, hope to get it soon and get back soon writing...</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Applies to all the developing countries</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">/*****Dr. Abdul Kalam's Letter to Every Indian******/</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Why is the media here so negative?</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Why are we in India so embarrassed to recognize our own strengths, our</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"> achievements? </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">We are such a great nation. We have so many amazing success stories but we refuse to acknowledge them. Why? </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">We are the first in milk production. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">We are number one in Remote sensing satellites. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">We are the second largest producer of wheat. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">We are the second largest producer of rice. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Look at Dr. Sudarshan , he has transferred the tribal village into a self-sustaining, self-driving unit. There are millions of such achievements but our media is only obsessed in the bad news and failures and disasters. I was in Tel Aviv once and I was reading the Israeli newspaper. It was the day after a lot of attacks and bombardments and deaths had taken place. The Hamas had struck. But the front page of the newspaper had the picture of a Jewish gentleman who in five years had transformed his d</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">esert into an orchid and a granary. It was this inspiring picture that everyone woke up to. The gory details of killings, bombardments, deaths, were inside in the newspaper, buried among other news.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">In India we only read about death, sickness, terrorism, crime.. Why are we so NEGATIVE? Another question: Why are we, as a nation so obsessed with foreign things? We want foreign TVs, we want foreign shirts. We want foreign technology. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Why this obsession with everything imported. Do we not realize that self-respect comes with self-reliance? I was in Hyderabad giving this lecture, when a 14 year old girl asked me for my autograph. I asked her what her goal in life is. She replied: I want to live in a developed India . For her, you and I will have to build this developed India. You must proclaim. India is not an under-developed nation; it is a highly developed nation. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_QEdWdrOa4-U/TFRTm-Kyg7I/AAAAAAAAAtk/heRoCSF4umI/s320/lead1a.jpg" style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 190px;" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5500112973914604466" /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Do you have 10 minutes? Allow me to come back with a vengeance. </span></span></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Got 10 minutes for your country? If yes, then read; otherwise, choice is yours.. </span></span></b></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">YOU say that our government is inefficient. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">YOU say that our laws are too old. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">YOU say that the municipality does not pick up the garbage. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">YOU say that the phones don't work, the railways are a joke. The airline is the worst in the world, mails never reach their destination. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">YOU say that our country has been fed to the dogs and is the absolute pits. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">YOU say, say and say. What do YOU do about it? </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Take a person on his way to Singapore. Give him a name - 'YOURS'. Give him a face - 'YOURS'. YOU walk out of the airport and you are at your International best. In Singapore you don't throw cigarette butts on the roads or eat in the stores. YOU are as proud of their Underground links as they are.. You pay $5 (approx. Rs. 60) to drive through Orchard Road (equivalent of Mahim Causeway or Pedder Road) between 5 PM and 8 PM. YOU come back to the parking lot to punch your parking ticket if you have over stayed in a restaurant or a shopping mall irrespective of your status identity… In Singapore you don't say anything, DO YOU? YOU wouldn't dare to eat in public during Ramadan, in Dubai .. YOU would not dare to go out without your head covered in Jeddah. YOU would not dare to buy an employee of the telephone exchange in London at 10 pounds (Rs.650) a month to, 'see to it that my STD and ISD calls are billed to someone else.'YOU would not dare to speed beyond 55 mph (88 km/h) in Washington and then tell the traffic cop, 'Jaanta hai main kaun hoon (Do you know who I am?). I am so and so's son. Take your two bucks and get lost.' YOU wouldn't chuck an empty coconut shell anywhere other than the garbage pail on the beaches in Australia and New Zealand .. Why don't YOU spit Paan on the streets of Tokyo ? Why don't YOU use examination jockeys or buy fake certificates in Boston ??? We are still talking of the same YOU. YOU who can respect and conform to a foreign system in other countries but cannot in your own. You who will throw papers and cigarettes on the road the moment you touch Indian ground. If you can be an involved and appreciative citizen in an alien country, why cannot you be the same here in India?</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">In America every dog owner has to clean up after his pet has done the job. Same in Japan .. Will the Indian citizen do that here?'</span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"> He's right. We go to the polls to choose a government and after that forfeit all responsibility. We sit back wanting to be pampered and expect the government to do everything for us whilst our contribution is totally negative. We expect the government to clean up but we are not going to stop chucking garbage all over the place nor are we going to stop to pick a up a stray piece of paper and throw it in the bin. We expect the railways to provide clean bathrooms but we are not going to learn the proper use of bathrooms. We want Indian Airlines and Air India to provide the best of food and toiletries but we are not going to stop pilfering at the least opportunity. This applies even to the staff who is known not to pass on the service to the public.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">When it comes to burning social issues like those related to women, dowry, girl child! and others, we make loud drawing room protestations and continue to do the reverse at home. Our excuse? 'It's the whole system which has to change, how will it matter if I alone forego my sons' rights to a dowry.' </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><b><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">So who's going to change the system? What does a system consist of? Very conveniently for us it consists of our neighbours, other households, other cities, other communities and the government. But definitely not me and YOU. When it comes to us actually making a positive contribution to the system we lock ourselves along with our families into a safe cocoon and look into the distance at countries far away and wait for a Mr.Clean to come along & work miracles for us with a majestic sweep of his hand or we leave the country and run away</span></i></b></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">. Like lazy cowards hounded by our fears we run to America to bask in their glory and praise their system. When New York becomes insecure we run to England . When England experiences unemployment, we take the next flight out to the Gulf. When the Gulf is war struck, we demand to be rescued and brought home by the Indian government. Everybody is out to abuse and rape the country. Nobody thinks of feeding the system. Our conscience is mortgaged to money. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Dear Indians, The article is highly thought inductive, calls for a great deal of introspection and pricks one's conscience too…. I am echoing J. F. Kennedy's words to his fellow Americans to relate to Indians….. </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><span><span></span></span><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">'ASK WHAT WE CAN DO FOR INDIA AND DO WHAT HAS TO BE DONE TO MAKE INDIA WHAT AMERICA AND OTHER WESTERN COUNTRIES ARE TODAY' </span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Lets do what India needs from us.</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">-Dr. A. P. J. Abdul Kalam</span></span></div></div>Think Why Nothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16313661524631297774noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767319247459779904.post-57251716413857068912010-03-01T13:14:00.000+05:302016-06-13T22:30:48.987+05:30Perceptions and misconceptions around same gender marriage(homosexual) and LGBT rights<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="background-color: white;">When we speak of marriage equality, many emotional reactions can be seen for and against LGBT rights & marriage equality; I thought of writing down few misconceptions and facts. I'm trying to see at this from a rational point of view rather than being biased (with religion, culture, faiths, etc) or conservative.</span></div>
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<li style="color: #222222; font-family: arial, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">"Heterosexuality is Natural. Homosexuality is unnatural."<br />
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<b>Wrong opinion/belief.</b> Scientifically speaking there are several mammals, birds, reptiles, etc show homosexual behaviour in Nature. I do not think they would have used internet and spoiled their mind or going with the trend. For further reading: <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_animals_displaying_homosexual_behavior" style="color: #1155cc; font-family: Arial, sans-serif;" target="_blank">https://en.wikipedia.<wbr></wbr>org/wiki/List_of_animals_<wbr></wbr>displaying_homosexual_behavior</a><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">Still not convinced: may be you should consider living in cave and hunting because all that humans do are artificial and against nature. (Your car, house (concrete buildings), laptops, phones, etc)</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">Nature proof is brought purely for sake of those who believe it is not natural. just because something is natural, you do not have do it. But what if you were born as a transgender and what if society does not accept you? What if society's database has only a Boolean value for gender, either male or female? What if your family throws you out in the fear of society and to avoid social stigmatization? What if you have face all these discrimination because of your birth and nature? Should not we change the social systems adapting them also part of society? Should we not build a society where every human and mammal can co-exist peacefully without being discriminated for things nature given them.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">Some are saying then should not we accept Bestiality(sex between inter species) too and allow man to have sex with animals. No! wrong for 2 reasons. First it is not natural condition. Scientifically no findings so far to prove it is natural condition. Second the individuals involved should be consensual. If you take man-animal scenario, animal never gave consent.<br />
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<li><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">"This is a disease or abnormality. comes due to hormonal dysfunction or mental instability."<br />
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Again a wrong opinion/belief. </b>In medical science, there are no medicines for homosexual behaviour. It is never identified as a MEDICAL CONDITION. Rather<b> it is identified as NATURAL CONDITION.</b> Some are born with it, just like us are born heterosexual. Those who think medical science is not advanced enough and they, themselves are more intelligence on this, please do a favour. Either do some research to prove and submit your paper to medical societies or consult a psychiatrist.<br />
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<li><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">"If we legalize this, what if everyone turn into a gay/lesbian?"<br />
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Just like I and You are born as heterosexual, they are born in such way. </span><span style="color: #222222;">No one</span><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;"> taught us get attracted to opposite gender. In the same way, they are attracted to same gender. Just because it is legalize will we be changing our sexual orientations? Never. Just like </span></span>Carnivores never eat grass even if they are starving, Noone is going to change their sexuality. Just accepting them will let them to live peacefully with society and not being discriminated and oppressed.<br />
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Just because we have accepted transgender/third gender, Has all the men and women changed their genders? Accepting them lets them live their life NORMAL just like any other human being. </span><span style="color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">And what is the point of forcing him/her to marry opposite gender person, when they have interest on same gender? Won't the other person's life get spoiled?<br />
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<li><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">"This is against my faith/god/religion"<br />
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One faith had a clause "Slavery is natural condition". Another set of followers had a faith on cast systems and treated a segment of people as untouchables. Hasn't these all understood as wrong and discarded. Putting the wrong ideas and faiths behind and moving forward is what we did as humans . Isn't that what we call CIVILIZATION?<br />
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<b>I'm sure all the faiths/gods/religions would teach you be compassionate to fellow human beings and fellow living beings. Isn't it wrong if you discriminate a segment of people due to the gender or sexual orientation? When you discriminate, are you not failing by not following your faith?</b><br />
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Still not convinced? Yes you are right. Being an environmentalist, it is my faith not to drive private vehicles which emit gases that destruct the environment. Being a vegan, it is my faith it is faith to kill animals for food since we have plenty of non-killing food options. etc. Should I impose all these to others or keep it to me?<br />
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<li><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">"Even if homosexuals are accepted into social structure, they cant reproduce. So no point of legalizing same gender marriage, as it does not provide any output (offspring)"<br />
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Man!, enough of this reproduction bullshit. Already we have 7.4 billion humans on this planet by so much of reproduction. and 0.783 billion do not have pure drinking water. 0.805 billion is suffering from extreme poverty. 2.5 billion do not have sanitary facilities. Isn't it alarming to you that human population alarmingly high and the earth struggling. Our resources are limited and it does not grow with the population. May be this is a Nature's way of controlling and telling us "<b>humans! give it a break.</b>"<br />
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Further, there are 153 million of kids who are orphan around the world. Heterosexual families have failed to adopt them. So why not the homosexual couple adopt them and complete their family.<br /><br />If the concept marriage is just all about legal way of producing offsprings, I guess it fails. Marriage is not legal certificate for having sex and reproduction. Rather I believe it is about companionship to another human being without limits.<br />
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<li><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif;">"Allowing same gender marriage will make the current social structure a mess, It is dangerous as new unknown sexual disease will spread."<br />
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Wrong. Just like heterosexual families, homosexual will have one-to-one rule. All the things like adultery, rape, non-consensual sex, exploitation will be considered as crimes and be punished by law. But how can this be possible without legally accepting their marriage or family? Mind you, it is just acceptance not forcing any of heterosexual person to change their orientation. If anyone forces, it is a crime too. This acceptance by law and society will enable them to live a normal life in society, that's all.<br />
<br />When you don't accept it, only then it will happen behind the curtains and sexual diseases will start to spread as a result of unprotected sex. Just for example, take the countries which has legalized prostitution and which does not. Societies and governments which does not have legalize it faces the consequences of comparative high percentage of AIDS and other STDs. e.g.: India. When someone has AIDS, if he/she does not come forward to take treatment, he/she will be spreading to more people. When you as society stigmatize AIDS patients from society how can they come forward for treatment. They try to hide or cover up.</span></li>
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Think Why Nothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16313661524631297774noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767319247459779904.post-4704389676395218222010-01-08T08:55:00.008+05:302010-01-16T20:55:38.134+05:30Mission Impossible - 2010<div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Though this going to be a repost, I believe it's worth it. It has been ages since I post here. all these days I have spent more time on reading rather than writing anything here. Due to my past experiences, I have not made any Newyear's resolutions because they never get accomplished. However, I would give a try to write a post atleast once in a month.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Start of 2010 has brought new hopes as like every new year. This is not just a new year but start of a new decade too. New plans, New efforts, fresh starts and everything with momentum and fresh energy.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">However, 2010 starts with fearful attacks, still extending war between nations, global warming, elections, other dangerous issues and especially on top, the financial crisis (though it is said to be reaching its end). So what are your plans for 2010?... Yes yes I’m asking you friend.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Mm.. oh.. all right, you have some plans. But have you not thought these big problems stand in front us. You may wonder why should I?.. </span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Are you?... hey friend, think why not? You may be wondering who am I to solve all these world problems? I’m simply no one, do not have any special powers.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Yes you are “The One” chosen by world to solve these problems just like “Neo” in Matrix. Believe in that. You can do it. This should be yours 2010's RESOLUTION (promise you make).</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /><br /></span><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_QEdWdrOa4-U/S0amqyyM7dI/AAAAAAAAApc/ufLvLNdsxUc/s1600-h/matrix-neo-widescreen.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 181px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_QEdWdrOa4-U/S0amqyyM7dI/AAAAAAAAApc/ufLvLNdsxUc/s320/matrix-neo-widescreen.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5424206055331392978" /></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /><br /></span><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Yes you are no one. No one will know you(that's basically an advantage for you because media won't be spying on each step you make, so called intelligents wont criticise on whatever you do), but still you are gonna solve the problems of the world because you are the chosen One. If Hussain Bolt can make it in 9 seconds, If Barack Obama can make a change in powerful nation of the world, If Michael Phelps can win 8 gold medals at Olympic, if some one in the corner of the world can, why not you. </span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">What you need is determination. Commitment and not giving up attitude will lead you save the world. You may be starting with small thing, a small change like just by reducing using the internet by that electricity or may be reducing (reusing) the polythene and progressing your efforts by asking your family and friends to make the change and soon inspiring all your mates and co workers to change for good.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Yes always think why not and now you are in a mission, A mission make you worth of living in the world. You are the chosen one to save world, the poor, the human, the nature and everything around you. Believe in that and start progressing. Hope to see a better world at the end of 2010 whether you and me are alive or not. It does not whether you win or loose, but it all matters at the end is how well you tried.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">By the way, I did not forget about the new year. I wish you all peaceful New Year and may your hard efforts come true success. and I'll pray for you for your mission in this 2010. :)</span></span></div>Think Why Nothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16313661524631297774noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767319247459779904.post-22909073128208351742009-04-10T21:50:00.011+05:302010-01-10T09:37:57.017+05:30Why I want to be Vegetarian.<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"> Lots of people around the world love eating non-Veg. me too until someday in my younger days until some incident (kind of realization) happened. I could not remember exactly what it is, but some sort of realization about the other living beings.</span></span><br /><br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"> Now I wish and like to have vegetable foods. First reason, Other living beings in the world are too born to live just like me. so why the hell should I kill them just for one time meal. Or what right do I have to kill them. They too have feelings. They too want to live on earth just like me. I really feel, it's cruel to kill them. Just watch the following videos.</span></span> You will get what I mean...<br /></div><br /><br /><object width="420" height="340"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/zFelfDbkzm4&hl=en&fs=1&color1=0x402061&color2=0x9461ca"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/zFelfDbkzm4&hl=en&fs=1&color1=0x402061&color2=0x9461ca" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="420" height="340"></embed></object><br /><br /><br /><object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/cEXxG0E44Sg&hl=en_US&fs=1&color1=0x402061&color2=0x9461ca"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/cEXxG0E44Sg&hl=en_US&fs=1&color1=0x402061&color2=0x9461ca" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object><br /><br />Have a heart, we can make a difference.Think Why Nothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16313661524631297774noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767319247459779904.post-3378262997125582972009-02-18T10:32:00.001+05:302010-01-10T09:41:37.597+05:30Wondering why no post..?<img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 250px; height: 320px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_QEdWdrOa4-U/SYLNU3r1cuI/AAAAAAAAAhE/1RB0RDlErks/s320/chimpanzee_thinking_poster.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5297021870170010338" border="0" /> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;">Hi all,</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;">Once again after testing your patience for about two weeks ;) , next post published in this blog. You may wonder why not this guy post regularly or why he takes such a long gap between posts. Actually I too love to write in regular intervals, but your positive responses (comments, followers and personal mails I got) made me bit afraid. Are my posts that much good? Oh dear, these guys must be just kidding…..! If not that adds me more responsibility to write more good articles than before.<br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;">As I just don’t believe in quantity every time I sit to type, I’m quite worried of quality (of content, thoughts, writing style and everything). That makes me such a delay and makes hurdle of putting a new post. OK.. OK.., I understand your face is going red and I’m irritating you with such lame excuses <span style="font-weight: bold;font-family:verdana;" >:D</span>. he... he… really believe me that’s one of the reason though major part of it is laziness.<br /></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;">Though I could not proceed with my next post on the topic I planned, I’ll write an article that made me to think. Hope to see you with that in a while. Keep visiting and sharing your ideas. ;)</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;">Yours Think Y Not.</span></p>Think Why Nothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16313661524631297774noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767319247459779904.post-35449682742704171962009-02-12T10:49:00.013+05:302009-02-12T11:32:59.784+05:30Wanna make life Happy...!<span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><br /></span><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" >This is one of the email that I received and thought, its worth sharing here.<br /></span><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_QEdWdrOa4-U/SZO1UFq-GvI/AAAAAAAAAhM/hb8wDHfEC3w/s1600-h/Girl+with+arms+stretched+out.jpg"><blockquote><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 259px; height: 224px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_QEdWdrOa4-U/SZO1UFq-GvI/AAAAAAAAAhM/hb8wDHfEC3w/s320/Girl+with+arms+stretched+out.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5301780543069625074" border="0" /></blockquote></a></span><br /><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style=";font-family:Verdana MS;font-size:85%;color:maroon;" ><b style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"><u><span style="font-weight: bold;">Health: </span></u></b></span><br /></div><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:maroon;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 51);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" >1.Drink plenty of water.</span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /></span><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:maroon;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 51);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" >2.Eat breakfast like a </span><span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 51);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" >prince (who have no worries will eat a lot varieties of food), lunch like a king (will have all the worries of y but still eats more items than a usual person) and dinner like a beggar (to have better sleep).</span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /></span><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:maroon;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 51);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" >3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.</span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /></span><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:maroon;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 51);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" >4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.</span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /></span><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:maroon;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 51);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" >5. Make time to practice meditation, yoga, and prayer.</span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /></span><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:maroon;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 51);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" >6. Play more games.</span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /></span><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:maroon;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 51);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" >7. Read more books than you did in last year</span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /></span><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:maroon;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 51);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" >8. </span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(102, 51, 51);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" >Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.</span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /></span><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:maroon;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 51);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" >9. Sleep for 7 hours.</span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /></span><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:maroon;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 51);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" >10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile. </span></span><br /><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><b><u><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);">Personality: </span></span></u></b></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >11. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.</span></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >12. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.</span></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >13. Don't over do. Keep your limits.</span></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >14. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.</span></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >15. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.</span></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >16. Dream more while you are awake.</span></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.</span></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><b style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">18. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.</span></b></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >19. </span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >Life is too short to waste time</span><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" > hating anyone. Don't hate others.</span></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><b style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">20. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.</span></b></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.</span></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.</span></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >23. Smile and laugh more.</span></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >24. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree. </span></span><br /></div><span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><b><u><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);">Society: </span></span></u></b></span> <span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:maroon;" ><br /></span><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:maroon;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >25. Call your family often.</span></span><br /><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:maroon;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >26. Each day give something good to others.</span></span><br /><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:maroon;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >27. </span><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >Forgive everyone for everything.</span></span><br /><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:maroon;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >28. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.</span></span><br /><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:maroon;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >29. Try to make at least three people smile each day.</span></span><br /><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;color:maroon;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >30. </span><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >What other people think of you is none of your business.</span></span><br /><span style=";font-family:Trebuchet MS;font-size:85%;color:maroon;" ><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch. </span></span><br /></div><span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><b><u><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);">Life: </span></span></u></b></span> <span style=";font-family:Trebuchet MS;font-size:85%;color:maroon;" ><br /><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >32. Do the right thing!</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >33. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >34. GOD heals everything.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >37. The best is yet to come.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >38. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;" >39. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.</span><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(102, 51, 0);">Have a great day. :)</span><br /></span>Think Why Nothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16313661524631297774noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767319247459779904.post-62932807730039356172009-01-19T11:58:00.000+05:302009-01-19T13:53:54.101+05:30A thought for the heart.hi all,<br /><div style="text-align: justify;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><br />Nice to see you all again through the posts. Though I wanted to write some impressing article, I did not have enough time or resources in this post. For the moment, I'll post this quick note of thought for you which is in my mind for last two days.<br /></span><br /><span style="font-size:85%;">As you all know there is big argument between theism & atheism for ages. I'm not going to talk of that now here though I have plans in future posts. but a thought for you all regarding to that.<br /></span><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><blockquote style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(102, 0, 204);font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:130%;">It does not matter whether you are an atheist or a theist when </span><span style="font-size:130%;">you are a president, What matters is feeding the poor and you will be the </span><span style="font-size:130%;">god to them.<br /><br /></span><span><span style="font-size:85%;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.cartoonstock.com/lowres/rjo0374l.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 365px; height: 232px;" src="http://www.cartoonstock.com/lowres/rjo0374l.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a></span></span></blockquote><br /></span><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size:85%;">(Thanks to Cartoonstock.com for the picture)</span><br /></div><span style="font-size:85%;"><br />I hope you got what meant above. It is not said only for president's or any great Leaders, but it conveys a message to all. Every one of you will surely be a Leader (may be in your community, may be among your friends, may be in your team, may be in your home) who set example in any way. Your private things are not bothered at all (though there are a lot who will bother don't worry of them), just do best in your duty or help others (at least in a small way). believe me, every one of you are still far more better state than millions of others who suffer around the world.</span><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><br />you don't need to be President or any other big person to do that, but what needed is just to stand up and make a difference. Believe in you, yes you can make a difference.<br /><br /></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /><span style="font-family:verdana;">Your thoughts are too welcome...</span></span> :)<br /></div>Think Why Nothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16313661524631297774noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767319247459779904.post-53245238238186683672009-01-18T09:24:00.001+05:302009-08-20T18:06:27.266+05:30Take Charge of Your Life - II<span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><span lang="EN-GB"><span style="color: rgb(102, 0, 0);">Read the <a href="http://thinkynt.blogspot.com/2009/01/take-charge-of-your-life-1.html">first part here</a>....</span><br /><br />Up to now, we have seen the secrets of the success.</span></span> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 0.5in;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span lang="EN-GB"><o:p> </o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 0.5in;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span lang="EN-GB">Now we will look at a burglar who is planning for bank Robbery. Could he be successful in his wish? The answer is yes if he has the above three qualities. He will have the knowledge about how to do. He even might have the skills and surely the burning desire. So what is the different for burglar and us? Now what we have defined is success. It could be in anything. <blockquote style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(102, 0, 204);">That’s why people are not in good state when comparing with old times, though technology, knowledge, skills and desire has been better state than ever before, since Stealing, burglary, rape, kidnaps and killing have been increased too.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_QEdWdrOa4-U/SXKrVWNjhJI/AAAAAAAAAfk/UZIaW0aOHtQ/s1600-h/kill.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 236px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_QEdWdrOa4-U/SXKrVWNjhJI/AAAAAAAAAfk/UZIaW0aOHtQ/s320/kill.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5292480895341790354" border="0" /></a><br /></blockquote> It is all in vision. What we dream should be correct one then only we would be able to achieve ‘Genuine Success’.</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span lang="EN-GB"><o:p> </o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span lang="EN-GB"><span style=""> </span>To lead ourselves in right path of ‘Genuine Success’, how can the competence be used. <span style="font-weight: bold;">There comes the character. We should have good and firm character to earn genuine success. Actually even the personality is the exposure of your character.</span> Character and Personality are as the upper and lower parts of Ice-berg formed in the middle of sea. From outside only smaller upper part (personality) can be seen, but the greater part of ice is under the sea. </span></span></p><blockquote style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(102, 0, 204);"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span lang="EN-GB">To have a smaller part up there, lower part should be firm and bigger, same with the character and personality</span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span lang="EN-GB">.</span></span><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_QEdWdrOa4-U/SXKo2BziGOI/AAAAAAAAAfc/3U909ij6gXA/s1600-h/iceberg.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 234px; height: 320px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_QEdWdrOa4-U/SXKo2BziGOI/AAAAAAAAAfc/3U909ij6gXA/s320/iceberg.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5292478158264735970" border="0" /></a></span></p></blockquote> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span lang="EN-GB"><o:p> </o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span lang="EN-GB"><br /></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span lang="EN-GB"> Who should take responsible to your success or achievements? It is not your family, not friends, not neighbours, but….. You.<span style="font-weight: bold;"> Others might have contributed, but still you should take the responsibility. We have seen lots of people complaining that their family is not supporting well or the country is not good or politicians are not responsible when they are not successful. It is not the reality.</span> These are excuses of people who do not want try again or those who have given up. <span style="font-weight: bold;">You should take charge of your life. For instance, let’s say you have a very important work to be finished and it is raining hard. Will you just sit down at home? No, you will take an umbrella and go. It is something like that. You can do nothing with Politicians or Country situations which even may not be changed, but still you should take charge of life and ride your way to ultimate task.</span></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span lang="EN-GB"><o:p> </o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span lang="EN-GB"><span style=""> </span><span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:100%;" ><span style="font-family:arial;">Finally it is important to remember what we had discussed. Have a Vision, improve your competence with good character and take charge of your life. Genuine Success is not far away from you.</span></span></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span lang="EN-GB"><o:p> </o:p></span></span></p> <div style="text-align: right;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span lang="EN-GB">[From the speech of </span><span lang="EN-GB">Nalaka Hewamadduma</span><span lang="EN-GB">]</span></span></div>Think Why Nothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16313661524631297774noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767319247459779904.post-43254928027942968292009-01-17T10:35:00.000+05:302009-01-18T09:33:23.645+05:30Take Charge of Your Life - 1<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_QEdWdrOa4-U/SXFuuD6hkRI/AAAAAAAAAfU/rIZplua0ooo/s1600-h/success.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 213px; height: 320px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_QEdWdrOa4-U/SXFuuD6hkRI/AAAAAAAAAfU/rIZplua0ooo/s320/success.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5292132774740857106" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 0.5in;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span lang="EN-GB">Life without the vision is just like the journey without destination or purpose. Everyone wants to achieve success in whatever they do. Have you ever wondered what it all takes to make something success (or achievable).</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 0.5in;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span lang="EN-GB">Vision is important to achieve success. Then a question arises ‘Is that enough’ to achieve success? if it is enough then those who (have) had the vision should have achieved success. But that never the case. So, we know that there is something more behind achieving success. Then what that could be? That is what so called ‘Competence’. Actually what is competence? How we could define it for right understanding. To say technique wise, it consists of three terms. First is Knowledge that you gain in studies, in listening, in what you see and in all sorts of ways. Then how much the Knowledge that you have contributes to your success. Could you think a bit <b>with your experiences and knowledge you have</b>. 50%, 60%, 80% or 100%, to say the truth, <b>it is just 10%.</b> It can not be believed isn’t it? Even if you believe or not that is what the truth is.</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span lang="EN-GB"><o:p> </o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span lang="EN-GB"><span style=""> </span>If is it so, then you might wonder what makes the other 90%. You could have guessed correctly too. Yes it is skills that are needed to achieve success. Then how much it is going to contribute? It is only 25%. You could be annoyed hearing that even having the skills and knowledge would not acquire success, but that’s what the truth is. Actually final term which is included in Competence is going to decide 65% on way to success. It is none other than ‘Desire’ to deserve your vision. <b>It is not just desire but burning desire</b>. You would be surprised to read this, so as I. But yeah it’s true. It is simply shown through the following analogy.</span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span lang="EN-GB"><br /></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span lang="EN-GB"><blockquote style="color: rgb(102, 0, 204); font-weight: bold;font-family:georgia;"><span style="font-size:130%;">Even the Knowledge & skills won't make 40% for your success.</span></blockquote><br /></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span lang="EN-GB"><span style=""> </span>Let’s say a student wants to win Gold medal in Swimming at Olympics (just like he is inspired by Michael Phelps), so he looked at the advertisements and goes to an institution where they taught excellently swimming. Let’s say he goes for each and every lecture and refers to books and web and can be able to passes the examination (theory) with Super Merit. <b>After passing examination if he goes and jumps straight in to pool for swimming, he will just drown and die. It is what happens to your vision if you only have knowledge</b>.<br /></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span lang="EN-GB"><br /></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span lang="EN-GB"> Let’s say he knows how to swim (skills & techniques) and tries to go for Olympics. He could not even be able to be selected in local team. That is why there are lots of people around who know swimming even they too want to participate in Olympics. Having only Skills leads to such a situation, because you must desire, so you practice (hard work driven by strong desire) and learn techniques (and knowledge) to achieve it. Let’s say he has only burning desire. So he goes straight and jumps into pool. Again he will just die. After all it is not only knowledge, not only skills, not only desire, all three are needed to achieve success.</span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span lang="EN-GB">(To be continued...)<br /></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: right;font-family:verdana;" align="right"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span lang="EN-GB">[From the speech of Nalaka Hewamadduma]</span></span></p>Think Why Nothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16313661524631297774noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767319247459779904.post-19734743760057886832009-01-12T12:02:00.000+05:302009-01-12T12:16:12.313+05:30Inactive Blog for a while<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">Dear Viewers,</span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">First of really sorry for not updating this blog for a while. As you all know, the same excuse as other bloggers say '<span style="font-style: italic;">busy with personal work</span>'. I am involved in Film show organized for the purpose of raising funds for charity projects of a Leo Club which I'm involved in. So quite busy and tensed and spending my whole day and night for it. As I'm the project chairperson (hope I can say so ;) ) and full responsible for this fund raiser show and its first experience for the club in such film show - fund raising, We just don't want it to fail in anyway (not just money).</span></span> <span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">my other Leos are too working hard to make it happen</span></span> <span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">(after all it is team work not a single man's battle).</span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">I have few more ideas for the upcoming posts, few inspiring speeches which I heard and few more articles which is really worth reading. So please bear with me just four or five more days, I'll post a nice inspiring post for sure.</span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">By the way please give your valuable ideas even they are criticizing or condemning.</span></span> :)<br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">Thanks for Reading and Keep in touch.</span></span><br /></div>Think Why Nothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16313661524631297774noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767319247459779904.post-78213426724299577942009-01-02T15:02:00.000+05:302009-01-02T15:25:37.962+05:30What’s Make the Difference (Continued…)<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-style: italic;font-size:85%;" ><span style="font-family:verdana;">This supposed to be the third post of this blog, but as new year came I posted New Year's resolution. Now I'll continue with 2nd post's continuation of What's make the Difference.</span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: verdana;font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" >Really what’s made the difference? Some more effort. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Actually the difference between ordinary and extra ordinary is only a little “EXTRA”.</span> After you were determined you must try until you reach it without giving up in the half way. </span><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /><br /></span><span style="font-family: verdana;font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" > <span style="font-weight: bold;">Growing old involves no sacrifice or no special effort.</span> While you grew older, your friend grew older even your enemy grew older. It’s just a mandatory natural process, <span style="font-weight: bold;">Growing Up is optional, and that is what distinguishes one person from the other.</span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /><br /></span><span style="font-family: verdana;font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><blockquote style="color: rgb(102, 0, 204);"><span style="font-weight: bold;">The true strength of man’s (even the woman’s) character comes to the front when he continues to hold his ground and use each stone hurled at him to build the walls of his own fortress</span></blockquote><br />That is what Great personalities did. The habit of never giving up and making positive output of every hurdle they had made them great. Mahatma Gandhi built his own fortress, using problems he had, not to fight but to make the white empire to be ashamed. He never gave up his policy of “Ahimsa” or his determination even when he went through troubles ever one can think of. But that’s what revealed his massive power of <span style="font-style: italic;">Ahimsa</span> and the power of his ‘<span style="font-style: italic;">ATHMA</span>’ (spiritual power or power is his character).</span><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /><br /></span><span style="font-family: verdana;font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" >When one is confronted by a wall, beating one’s head against it won’t help. But need to look for opening. It is again important to know whether we are in right path because all your hard work would be useless unless you work in the right direction. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Effort in the wrong direction will make your target more and more far than ever before.</span> So, first determine where to go, then choose the right path and work, work, work with never giving up.</span><br /><br /><div style="text-align: right;"> [based on the speech of PID A.P. Singh] </div></div>Think Why Nothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16313661524631297774noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767319247459779904.post-1167280057581873942009-01-01T01:09:00.000+05:302010-01-08T09:02:40.256+05:30You are the One.<span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">Start of 2009 surprises every one with new hopes. New plans, New efforts, fresh starts and everything with momentum and fresh energy.</span><br /></span><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">However, 2009 starts with fearful attacks, still extending war between nations, global warming, other dangerous issues and especially on top, the <span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(102, 102, 204);">financial crisis</span>. So what are your plans for 2009?... Yes yes I’m asking you friend.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:verdana;">Mm.. oh.. all right, you have some plans. But have you not thought t</span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">hese big problems stand in front us. You may wonder why should I?.. Are you?... hey friend, think why not? You may be wondering who am I to solve all these world problems? I’m simply no one, do not have any special powers.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:verdana;"><blockquote style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(102, 102, 204);">Yes you are “The One” chosen by world to solve these problems just like “Neo” in Matrix. Believe in that. You can do it. This should be yours 2009's RESOLUTION <span style="font-weight: normal;"><span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"><span><span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_QEdWdrOa4-U/SV2xYo5JW1I/AAAAAAAAAe4/RA1CJwYPuuM/s1600-h/Neo+face+Everything.jpg"></a></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span>(promise you make).<br /><br /><span><span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_QEdWdrOa4-U/SV2xYo5JW1I/AAAAAAAAAe4/RA1CJwYPuuM/s1600-h/Neo+face+Everything.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 216px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_QEdWdrOa4-U/SV2xYo5JW1I/AAAAAAAAAe4/RA1CJwYPuuM/s320/Neo+face+Everything.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5286576574454913874" border="0" /></a></span></span></span></span><br /></blockquote><br />Yes you are no one. No one will k</span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">now you, but still you are gonna solve the problems of the world because you are the chosen One. </span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">If Hussain Bolt can make it in 9 seconds, </span></span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">If Barack Obama can make a change in powerful nation of the world, If Michael Phelps can win 8 gold medals at Olympic, if some one in the corner of the world can, why not you</span>. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:verdana;">What you need is determination. Commitment and not giving up attitude will lead you save the world. You may be starting with small thing, a small change like just by reducing using the internet by that electricity or may be reducing (reusing) the polythene and progressing your efforts by asking your family and friends to make the change and soon inspiring all your mates and co workers to change for good.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:verdana;">Yes always think why not and now you are in a mission, </span></span><span style="font-weight: bold;font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;">A mission make you worth of living in the world. You are the chosen one</span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;"> to save world, the poor, the human, the nature and everything around you. Believe in that and start progressing. Hope to see a better world at the end of 2009 whether you and me are alive or not.</span></span><br /><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"><br />By the way, I </span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:verdana;">did not forget about the new year. I wish you all peaceful New Year and may your hard efforts come true success. and I'll pray for you for your mission in this 2009. :)</span></span>Think Why Nothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16313661524631297774noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767319247459779904.post-90363498579922586552008-12-30T10:40:00.001+05:302009-01-27T10:55:54.795+05:30What's make the difference?<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" >Once, when Mahatma Gandhi was in South Africa, where he practised law as a barrister, (at that time he was not not recognized as Mahatma, he was just Mohanlal Karamchand Gandhi </span><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" >then</span><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" >) he was about travel in the train in the first class. At that moment train attendant came into train compartment (where Gandhi was in) to check the tickets. The attendant noticed Gandhi was there and asked him to leave. Gandhi did not move and showed his ticket that he bought. But the attendant got irritated and tore the ticket and told to Gandhi, "<span style="font-weight: bold;">Blacks and the Dogs are not allowed in the first class</span>”. Also he threw Gandhi out of the compartment to the platform. That does not make any difference in the station, since everyday or other blacks and Indians are treated like that, After all <span style="font-style: italic;">Mahatma Gandhi is not only man who had been thrown</span> out of the train compartment in indecent manner due to colour discrimination.</span><br /><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><br />This incident have happened many times before for many men, but none of those incidents made any difference. </span><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" > <span style="font-weight: bold;">but this incident of Gandhi made a huge difference in the history of the world and Indian nation</span>. How is it possible? What’s really made the difference? It’s the determination. How the Mahatma Gandhi would have felt when he was thrown out in the platform. There he determined that “you people threw me out today and I will throw entire British (white) Empire from my country”. <span style="font-weight: bold;">That determination made huge difference in the world history</span>.<br /></span><br /><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><blockquote style="color: rgb(102, 0, 204); font-weight: bold;font-family:verdana;"><span style="color: rgb(102, 0, 204);font-size:110;" >Human </span><span style="color: rgb(102, 0, 204);font-size:110;" >mind something that is capable</span><span style="color: rgb(102, 0, 204);font-size:110;" > of achieving al</span><span style="color: rgb(102, 0, 204);font-size:110;" >l that you dream, imagine or vis</span><span style="color: rgb(102, 0, 204);font-size:110;" >ualize</span><span style="color: rgb(102, 0, 204);font-size:110;" > with strong desire.</span></blockquote><br /><br />If that single man’s determination can make the difference and made him a Mahatma, why can not we?</span> <span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><span style="font-family:verdana;">Everything is in us. Only thing we have to determine and work towards that until we reach it. </span>Some people try, but when they met with a small failure or an obstacle or they could not reach their fruits at expected time they will just give it up. It actually like this, for instance water is heating up its in 99°C. when someone has put his hands in it, he quickly takes out his hands and might shout "what the hell to keep fingers in boiling water". But for a scientist it is not boiling water since water boils at 100°C under normal conditions, so it is not boiling. Just like that most of us try until 99°C and we give up. Those who give some more effort get 1°C more will achieve the victory.<br /></span><div style="text-align: center;"><blockquote><br /><span><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><span><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><span><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><span><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><span><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_QEdWdrOa4-U/SV3ROrGAWTI/AAAAAAAAAfA/CJYl2WrnCZg/s1600-h/just+a+bit+more+effort.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_QEdWdrOa4-U/SV3ROrGAWTI/AAAAAAAAAfA/CJYl2WrnCZg/s320/just+a+bit+more+effort.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5286611587619117362" border="0" /></a></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span>How will look if he just give up from this height, just because he has not reached the top.</blockquote><br /></div><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" ><br />So, what’s make the difference? It’s all one degree more effort. That’s what makes difference between the win and loss. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Just one degree more effort</span>. So never never give up.</span><br /><br /><div style="text-align: right;font-family:verdana;"><span style="font-size:85%;"> <span style="font-family:arial;">[based on the speech of PID A.P. Singh] </span></span><br /></div><span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;" >-planning to be continued-</span><br /></div>Think Why Nothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16313661524631297774noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767319247459779904.post-6694432954983532382008-12-29T14:52:00.000+05:302008-12-29T15:16:07.406+05:30thinks what to write....?<span style="font-size:85%;">hi all,<br /><br /><span style="font-family: verdana;">This blog is a long deep dream of mine. I was planning to launch a blog for a long time, but due to my laziness, the dream had been the dream until now. After starting, I again started worrying what to post as the first post. Though Im not a man of sentiments, I still wanted to write something better. but due to that again two weeks passed, still without a post. Finally I determined to start something rather keeping it blank.<br /><br />As this is the first post, I will start in my style. OK what I shall write about? why is this blog? and thousands of questions in my mind.<br /><br />Well what Im going to write about? What you are going to find here is just some thoughts and views of mine. may be rational and sometimes may not be, may be which people never worried of or world never cares of, may be things that no one wishes talk. It could be right or may be wrong in your concern (I just dont believe in rights and wrongs because I believe there is no such thing world like absolute right or absolute wrong or good or bad,just those are determined by the time, place and situations). You could still have different thoughts and ideas and thats your right. So why not me have such right.<br /><br />After all, I'll just wanna remind you, all the posts here should not be mine. sometimes some may be adopted from somewhere in the web or any other thing which could have affected me to write a post here.<br /><br />As usual bloggers I don't want to repeat, "Please post your comment". <span style="font-weight: bold;">If you think worth posting your ideas, you are welcome</span>, If you don't then leave it. does not matters at all. Sometimes your increased comments might boost me to write more here. ;)<br /><br />Yours Think Y Not<br /></span></span>Think Why Nothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16313661524631297774noreply@blogger.com0